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Before a work trip a few years ago, Chloe hinted to her husband she wanted to have sex with someone else. While she didn't have a particular person in mind, it had been a fantasy of hers for a while. That didn't eventuate, but the couple officially began a non-monogamous relationship earlier this year.
An old friend had called Chloe to wish her happy birthday and they ended up catching up — and sleeping together. That was the first time I had sex with anyone aside from my partner in 10 years," she says. Since then, Chloe and her husband have dated and slept with other people, with some connections stronger than others. More and more people are actively looking for alternatives to monogamy, research shows.
And it's women leading this relationship revolution, explains author and social researcher Wednesday Martin. The story we've heard over and over, whether it's in the media or scientific studies, is that monogamy somehow comes more easily Single girl looking for monogamous women, says Martin. And Martin says it's not because women want less sex. They need variety, novelty and adventure — otherwise, they get bored.
Desiree Spierings is a relationship counsellor and sex therapist in Sydney. She says in the clients she has worked with, more often it is the woman instigating an open or poly relationship. There aren't a lot of stats available for polyamory in Australia, but research appearing in CSIRO Publishing found 1 per cent of 5, respondents were in an "open relationship".
Each person may define their relationship in a different way. There is no wrong or right when it comes to labelling. The general difference between open and polyamorous relationships is the level of connection, according to Ms Spierings. And sometimes this includes sex. Ms Spierings says she is seeing more couples exploring polyamory than she did 10 years ago — Single girl looking for monogamous she's not sure if that is just because people are more open about it. When Chloe first experienced a desire to be with people other than her husband, she wondered if it reflected her feelings for him.
It's all on you'. That was a lightbulb moment for Chloe, who says non-monogamy has only made the relationship with her husband stronger. Ms Spierings says for any couple considering changing their monogamous relationship to a non-monogamous one, there are a few things to consider. Because that's not the right reason. This is kind of an easy way out. If you establish it's for the "right" reason, you and your partner need to set boundaries.
For example, who are you allowed to see? Who is allowed to know about it? Will you share details with one another? How much time can you spend with them? What sexual things are allowed? Get our newsletter for the best of ABC Everyday each week.
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ABC Everyday. Print content Print with images and other media. Print text only. Print Cancel. Far from dismissing it, her husband suggested she go for it. And generally she sees more same-sex couples in non-monogamous relationships than heterosexual. Poly, open, monogamish — what's the difference? Chloe says she and her husband are "open, or poly, depending on who you ask". What it means for the relationship When Chloe first experienced a desire to be with people other than her husband, she wondered if it reflected her feelings for him.
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